👋 How to Choose the Right Adult Toys?

👋 How to Choose the Right Adult Toys?

As of 2024, people no longer consider masturbation a shameful act, just as it would be ridiculous to ask why people need to eat. Sexual desire, like appetite, is one of the most primitive instincts in humans.

With the onset of puberty, both males and females experience a gradual increase in hormone levels, sexual skills mature, and sexual needs intensify. As early as 1972, the American Medical Association declared masturbation to be a normal sexual behavior in humans.

Therefore, whether you are preparing for masturbation or already practicing it, feel free to fulfill your needs and consider using some auxiliary tools such as vibrators, dildos, and more.

We have previously recommended vibrators and eggs, so how do you choose a practical dildo? This can be an important decision that can impact your quality of life. Please make sure to do your research scientifically, rigorously, and seriously. Here are some guidelines applicable to everyone pursuing a fulfilling life.

1. Dildos

Dildos, also known as fake penises or phalluses, are ancient instruments. In the past, there were enormous penis statues in different regions that served as objects of worship.

With the progress of modern civilization, synthetic dildos have emerged. They are the same size as or even larger than real male penises and are used for sexual activities or masturbation. Some scholars even consider modern batons as extensions of dildos.

Since the 14th century, there have been records of dildos in Chinese literature, and erotic novels of the Ming and Qing dynasties depicted a character named "Mr. Jiao," who can be seen as a prototype of modern dildos. During this period, dildos were made from a variety of materials, including wood and jade.

Compared to other adult toys, dildos can provide thorough satisfaction both psychologically and physiologically. Designed based on male penises, dildos can provide a pleasurable sensation similar to real penetration during use, resulting in indescribable pleasure. Some highly realistic dildos have prominent textures and completely simulate the male penis. Although they are artificial, they can stimulate the vaginal walls during penetration, effectively stimulating the G-spot and leading to orgasm.

Upgraded dildos also incorporate electric designs, generating intense tingling sensations and accelerating the orgasmic process.

2. How to Choose?

① Size

Everyone's genitals vary in size, shape, thickness, and so on, and different individuals have different preferences for dildos.

The market offers a variety of sizes and shapes for dildos. However, these sizes do not exceed people's understanding of penis definitions, such as thick vs. thin or short vs. long.

The average erect diameter of Chinese males is approximately 35 millimeters, and the average length is about 130 millimeters. Taking into account the size of national standard condoms (with a diameter of about 33 millimeters), dildos can be classified into four sizes: small (diameter less than or equal to 33 millimeters), medium (diameter between 33 millimeters and 38 millimeters),
Large size (diameter between 38mm and 43mm) and extra-large size (diameter larger than 43mm) are available for selection.

Choosing the right size is crucial. If the size is too small, it may not provide the desired satisfaction, while choosing a size that is too large may cause discomfort or even pain. The best approach is to explore using masturbation or finger insertion to find the size range that suits you.

Material is another key factor in selecting a realistic dildo. Common materials include silicone, TPE, and PVC.

Silicone is a high-quality material that is soft, smooth, and free of harmful substances. It has high temperature tolerance, durability, is easy to clean, and is compatible with water-based lubricants.

TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) is another common material that provides a lifelike skin-like texture. However, TPE may not be as durable as silicone and may be sensitive to certain substances like alcohol.

PVC is a common but relatively inexpensive material. However, PVC may contain harmful substances and has a relatively rough surface that is difficult to clean.

The choice of material depends on personal preferences and health considerations. If you value quality and safety, it is recommended to choose silicone.


In addition to basic realistic functions, some dildos also offer additional features such as vibration, rotation, and heating.

The vibration function can provide extra stimulation, targeting sensitive areas and increasing pleasure. Vibration modes and intensity may vary depending on the product, so you can choose according to your preferences.

The rotation function can simulate realistic thrusting motions, stimulating the vaginal walls and enhancing pleasure. This feature may be appealing to those seeking a more realistic experience.

The heating function can provide a warm touch to the dildo, increasing comfort and realism.

Choosing a dildo with additional features can be based on personal preferences and budget.

To summarize, choosing the right realistic dildo involves considering size, material, and functionality. Understanding your preferences and needs, researching and comparing based on user reviews and recommendations, is important. The most important thing is to ensure that the chosen product is safe and comfortable, to ensure a satisfactory experience.

I hope these guidelines are helpful to you! 💡💁‍♀️

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